This is an example of how a legacy letter can be written for a person facing surgery, to his children in case he doesn’t survive the procedure.

My dearest Ethan, Bethany and Paige,

Today I find myself in a reflective mood. The sun is shining brightly, the wind is gently rustling through the apple tree and I’m thinking of you. Although I’m on the other side of the house, I can hear you, Ethan, dribbling the basketball in the driveway out front, working on your crossover dribble, no doubt. I remember the hours I spent doing much the same when I was your age, wonderful hours in the fresh air, flitting from game to game, trying to get to the point where I could beat Billy Saltzman. That day never came, but I never regretted one minute of it.

And Bethany. Even though you’re still sitting at the Burches as I write this, I can’t help but marvel at what a strong, independent woman you’re turning into, and you haven’t even started high school yet!

As for you, Paige, there wasn’t a prouder father in the house last spring when you won that ribbon at the science fair. My only regret was that you didn’t flash your amazing smile at the awards ceremony. Don’t worry, honey, those braces won’t last forever. Just ask your older sister!

Words cannot express how much I love you kids. Sure, I may have been a bit of a nag at times, but isn’t that what parents are for? Despite occasional lapses of taste in music, clothes and orderliness, you guys get it right most of the time. For that your mother and I consider ourselves eternally blessed.

Although I won’t be around to share my pearls of wisdom with you as you continue to blossom as responsible citizens, I hope that you will find a place in your heart for me. And whenever you need a lift, or swift kick in the pants, visit that place. I’ll always be there for you.

I love you kids.

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